Friday, June 24, 2011

Love in cybrspace :)

Wow, I am being very regular here, am I not? Guess that is what happens when you have nothing better to do ;) Not saying that blogging is not fun; when there are 1000s of thoughts running through your mind, blogging comes first. When your mind is speeding, you need to take out some of what is going on and fill it into someplace.
So, about love in cyberspace; you think that happens? Do you think that you can fall in love with someone that you just chatted with? In comes my new phrase: "Love at first chat".. No, no, no movie makers; you cannot borrow this phrase. You may not!! This thought is exclusively mine and I do not want a tacky movie made out of this..
So, I know this person who fell in love with a guy online. There is this joke I heard somewhere; "They met ONLINE, fell in love ONLINE, married ONLINE and she is now having a kid!!" The question is; how!! Well, they must have had chat sex :p
This girl I am talking about, chatted with the guy for almost a month. This is happening now; so do not expect me to know its ending. She fell in love with him and is still in love with him and has vowed that she will not CHAT with another stranger (men of course)

Is this possible people? Can someone be as shallow as this? Or is THIS the new depth? Meeting someone where there are billions and billions of others to meet and falling in love because of similar circumstances and allegedly similar thought patterns.
As for me, I cannot trust a person I just met online. Even with a lot of chats, I cannot trust a stranger. It is just uncomfortable.. Not just coz I have a high opinion of guys in general (just kidding) Because even if you meet a person; in person; you just cannot know what is going through their mind.
So unburdening oneself through chats is just creepy ;) Not that I have not done it myself; but that was years ago. Feels like a century ago. When I was a freshman in college. And I got myself into a nice fix too! Poor guy did look like he genuinely loved me :O
Oh and in this particular case; this is the girl's first love. Maybe this is going to work out. But I know one thing for sure;I do not want to stick around and see a sad ending if that is what it is going to be because this is kind of all that is going for her now...

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